There's that word God again, that get's so many people all riled up. So I want you to use the word love instead.In order to know and find true love, you have to overcome religious or any other form of dogma, prejudice, paranoia, self-righteousness, traditions, your natural instincts and instinctual ways of thinking, to truly know and find, the one, TRUE God of absolute love. For God IS true love, that's who, what, how and why He is and true love is not religious, dogmatic, prejudiced or paranoid, etc., people are, and from their instinctual pride and vanity (ego), project their ways of thinking, limited concepts and level of understanding, onto God, just as they do onto others, because they're so caught up in their own little world of self, they can't understand anyone except themselves, and honestly, they don't even understand themselves that well either. They THINK they do, but they are truly lost in their own little world of self and have no idea of WHAT true love is and that true love is the only true meaning of life, absolutely.True love is absolutely holy, peaceful, graceful, gracious, assertive, caring, charitable, compassionate, confident, considerate, cooperative, courageous, courteous, creative, determined, dignified, diligent, enthusiastic, faithful, flexible, forgiving, friendly, generous, gentle, helpful, honest, honorable, humble, idealistic, integral, joyful, kind, loyal, moderate, modest, orderly, patient, persevering, purposeful, reliable, respectful, responsible, self-disciplined, tactful, thankful, tolerant, trusting, trustworthy, truthful, understanding and wise.This is WHAT true love is. The characteristics (fruits) of true love's divine, eternal nature, which when you are truly filled with true love's presence, in absolute, supernatural power and glory, makes your character that of a perfect gentleman or gentlewoman.